Parents teach their children to be fearful and cautious
of specific dangers, such as fire or crossing the road.
Anxiety can be useful, because it helps protect the
child from harm. However, children can be fearful of
situations or objects that adults don't consider
threatening. The sources of fear may change as the
child matures; for example, a fear of the dark or
monsters under the bed may give way to fears of
burglary or violence. Tactics that don't work include
teasing the child for being afraid, or compelling them
to confront fearful situations. Helping the child to deal
with fear includes taking their feelings seriously,
encouraging them to talk about their anxieties, telling
them the facts, and giving them the opportunity to
confront their fears at their own pace and with your
support.
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